In my younger days, I loved to read as much as I could. I’d enjoyed being submerged in thoughts of wise people. In my innate being, I wanted to know more about them, personally.
Let me confessed little bit, I’d follow few communist whose writing pattern had become an obsession to me. I’d imitate their styles during my school days. More than the content in their writing, it is their style of expressing, I had enjoyed.
We all enjoyed learning new things, I hope, for which writers or columnist became our channel for getting useful information and resources.
Few years had passed, when I got to know more about their ideologies and personal ethics, I stopped following some of them. I am no more a huge fan of them. Why? Because, only in my perception, I know them enough to the extent to even dislike them.
That being said, there are few reasons – I have become more critical of them. And I remained there, to be among their faultfinders, before I’ve moved on.
Now, getting to know more and getting closed are quite similar yet dissimilar hugely. And as you see, getting to know more of someone does not end in being getting close, somehow or never.
In the affairs of our so-called ‘love life or romance’, we can be attracted to someone before knowing them as much as we wanted to. It can led to a spark between two different people meeting in the stages of life – infatuation.
There are some who are unable to tolerate and enjoyed their incompatibility, which gradually let them to split despite their past commitments to each other. Failed partnership, failed marriage, failed relationship, or whatever name we called them.
In reality, our getting to know more must have led us to being getting closer. However, it can hit rock bottom and blew wide open otherwise. There’s nothing as such ‘an incompatibility-proof’ in all matters.
What is next? Being unable to get closer because of the ‘I know you’ attitude, jealousy plays a spoiler. When we felt not closed enough for few moments, our innate evil owner could creep in, destroying everything we had.
This critical view of fault finding can turn into compassion! One can take joy in dealing with incompatibility. When compassion creeps in, criticisms can turn us into being closer.
One thing, I must tell you, in the love of God poured out and made available in the blood of Jesus Christ, all things are made possible in His might.
Remember all the divisive barriers and personal strongholds were crashed on the Cross of Calvary, in His abiding grace.
Apostle Paul urged the believers, of Philippians, to let their knowledge and insights must draw them closer to the resurrected Christ. When he wrote to them, in Philippians 1:9,
“And this is my prayer that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight.”
Our God, always, remained close in His abiding grace. The more we know the more we get closer or want to get closer instead.
Unlike other personalities and existing creatures of God, we could be as close as Christ Jesus, and as much as we wanted to. His arm is always open to anyone. Let me end herewith;
To know more of Christ is to become closer to Him, day by day!
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